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When a Father Chooses to Abandon His Responsibilities: A Mother’s Heartbreaking Journey of Protecting and Loving Her Kids While Navigating the Pain of Their Father’s Neglect

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When a Father Chooses to Abandon His Responsibilities: A Mother’s Heartbreaking Journey of Protecting and Loving Her Kids While Navigating the Pain of Their Father’s Neglect

How could you literally repeatedly lie to my son every weekend for now the past 5 weeks straight and neglect your responsibilities as a father now for over a year !! all because after 8 years of your lies, being dishonest, being PHYSICALLY, mentally, verbally, emotionally abusive, manipulative, and controlling, and I no longer accepted that from you and will not be teaching my kids one lesson and living a dishonest lesson for myself and them. you turned your back on your kids not me. You’re not hurting me but THEM. Not spending time with them is hurting THEM not me. I will never paint the “ain’t shit Nigga” picture you’re doing that perfectly fine on your own. Our son told me “he thinks everyone cares about him and his sister more than his own dad” …what am I suppose to do w that?! The things you’re doing is hurting them not me, and ima keep saying that !!

A little boy caught in the confusion of a father’s absence, longing for the love and guidance that should come so naturally. But with his mother’s strength and unwavering care, he’ll know he is loved, even in the silence

For all you dudes who are feeling some type of way because that woman no longer is willing to accept the hurt you put her through and now you’re wanting to “get back at her” by neglecting your fatherly responsibilities God sees you and you can’t hide from the wrath of God. and now as a mom I’m in a situation of healing my son’s mental while trying not to paint a picture of how sorry you really are. our son, is coming up on milestones where a dad/ male role is needed as it is in his life span period, but for you to be okay w the way you’re doing things all because I MOVED ON from the wishful thinking, and accepting your true colors, I’m honestly shook because when we were together you were a great dad physically, at least making sure they felt loved by you, all you’re doing is proving to me I made the best decision for myself and most of all my kids. one thing about me you’ll never be able to say is …I DIDNT TRY, I NEVER KEPT YOUR KIDS FROM YOU, Never wanted what was in your pockets but to be there for your kids.

A little girl with a heart full of questions, searching for the love of a father who should be there, yet finding solace in the unconditional love and strength of her mother

And to hear so many dudes say I gotta bitter baby mama …tuhhh now I see bitter baby daddies exist as well. I’ll continue to pray on all of this but I will share how I feel out loud. So please save your “take it down” comments

In a world where her father’s love is missing, she finds her worth in her mother’s embrace strong, beautiful, and loved beyond measure.

Signed.

Jayce and Jordynn’s MOTHER never YOUR BABYMAMA!

Be easy.

I’ll continue loving these faces by myself